Our Story

“We’re just two first-gen college grads from separate inner-cities on a mission to break generational cycles and do life differently, together.”

His Truth

Jordan’s story begins in inner-city Rochester, NY—raised in an environment marked by poverty, mental illness in the family, violence, and constant survival. But his story didn’t stop there.

He became a hometown example of what was possible—graduating as his high school’s valedictorian, becoming the first in his family to earn a college degree, and stepping into a successful career in tech as a Scrum Master. Over the years, he led teams, organizations, and events—building a life that, on paper, looked like everything he had worked for.

But beneath the surface, something wasn’t right. Though he grew up in the church, Jordan eventually stopped pursuing a real relationship with God—choosing instead to chase success, pleasure, and escape from the pain he had never fully addressed.

A few years into his tech career, his body began to respond. What started as high-functioning anxiety turned into chronic migraines—something he would battle for most of his 12-year career. Doctors couldn’t pinpoint the cause, so he took his health into his own hands. For a season, it helped.

But eventually, the symptoms returned. And this time, he couldn’t ignore what it was pointing to. At some point, he had to face the truth:

his body was exposing what his spirit had been trying to tell him for years.

Misalignment doesn’t stay hidden. It eventually shows up—in your health, your peace, and your life.

Through therapy, prayer, and getting reconnected in small groups, Jordan began experiencing real transformation. As he grew, he stepped into serving in ministry—eventually becoming a volunteer director—where he developed leaders, poured into people, and deepened his faith in a real and personal way.

But the biggest shift came when he chose alignment over comfort. He realized:

his greatest fear wasn’t failure—it was getting to the end of his life and realizing he stayed somewhere too long out of fear.

That realization led him to step away—to rest, heal, and reset. After taking a three-month leave and working with a functional medicine doctor, he addressed the deeper root causes of his migraines—chronic stress, nervous system dysregulation, and years of living in fight-or-flight. Since then, he hasn’t experienced a migraine.

What started as a personal healing journey became a calling.

In 2022, Jordan and his wife Candice launched Wellthy & Relaxed—a coaching and community brand designed to help others break cycles, heal at the root, and walk in alignment with who God created them to be.

Since then, they’ve coached individuals and led groups through transformation—helping people move beyond surface-level behavior change into deeper identity, spiritual alignment, and purpose-driven living.

Shortly after stepping into this work, Jordan began to clearly see the men he was called to serve.

Men who love God—but feel stuck. Men who are high-performing on the outside but wrestling internally with habits, inconsistency, and pressure. Men who know they’re called to more—but don’t know how to walk it out.

Now, Jordan helps men break free from cycles, restore their identity as sons of God, deepen their intimacy with Him, and step boldly into their purpose. Because real transformation isn’t about becoming someone new—it’s about finally becoming who God created you to be.

Her Truth

Candice Rawls is a Christian Life Coach and co-founder of Wellthy & Relaxed, a coaching and community brand she runs alongside her husband—helping people grow into who God is calling them to be.

Raised in the inner city of Boston in a single-parent household, Candice’s early life was shaped by the challenges of a broken home. Though she grew up in the church, she eventually drifted—seeking fulfillment in success and the world rather than fully surrendering to God.

Determined to build a different life, she became the first in her family to graduate college and stepped into a career at an ad agency, where she worked for five years. As a first-generation professional, she didn’t fully understand how to navigate the corporate world. While the environment was toxic, she also takes ownership—she didn’t yet know how to advocate for herself or recognize what was possible. Over time, she began to feel unseen, stretched thin, and out of place.

Then life shifted.

After losing her father to cancer and being laid off shortly after, Candice pushed forward—becoming a full-time freelancer while growing a personal finance brand that documented her journey from negative net worth to becoming debt-free.

From the outside, it looked like success.
But internally, she was still carrying pain.

During the pandemic, she came face to face with the truth:
money and achievement weren’t enough to heal what was within.

She needed God—not just in belief, but in surrender.

Candice began to truly trust Him, embracing her identity as a daughter of God and rebuilding her life from the inside out. Through intentional rhythms, healing, and renewing her mind, she discovered a new definition of success—one rooted in peace, alignment, and purpose.

Because she now believes:
your inner world shapes your external life.

In 2023, Candice became a mother, welcoming her daughter and later her son. Transitioning into being a stay-at-home mom challenged her identity—but in that season, God reminded her that her value was never in what she did, but in who she is as His daughter.

Shortly after, she became a Certified Christian Life Coach—overcoming doubts about balancing motherhood and growth, and stepping fully into her calling.

Now, Candice helps women renew their minds, heal from past experiences, break old cycles, and confidently walk in the identity and life God has always had for them.

Because no matter your story—
God is still there, and transformation is always possible.